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Please help me pray for my son his name is Anthony and he just turned 17th years old. He has a gifrirlend that he has been with since the 10th grade. This girl comes from a dysfunctional home, no family support, She is felt to raise her younger sister’s cook and clean. She has no rules or guidance from her parents. Her family is really poor and live in a run down house. Her parents don’t work love to party drink and use drugs. Her parents are not involved in her life, Her parents are to busy doing their own thing to worry about their daughter, Their is no involvement of any kind on the parents part. My son comes from a middle class family we are hard working and he is the only child. My son is blessed and never goes with out. He gets good grades, plays sports, in AVID and is taking AP and honor class. Our son comes from a loving caring family, supportive family and their is nothing we wouldn’t do for our son. Snice my son has been with this girl she has isolated him from his friends and family and keeps him away from them. She wants to control my son’s coming and going, life, the things he does and who he hangs out with or talks to. She wants him all to herself. My fear is that one day she will try to isolate my son from his parents and keep him away when my son is done with High School and that we will never see him again. Her plan is to have my son move out of his home and move in with her right out of high school. My fear is that she is going to try to trap my son into marrying her or she will try traping him by getting pregnant. Every time she is around our family she is embracing, rude and has no respect for authority. She is always picking fights with my son, giving him and us an attitude and telling him she is sick so she can have him all to her self and justify her behavior and he won’t interact with others. I see my son making excuess for her behavior and justify it. She will not interact with any one. Snice my son has been with her he has no friends or a life. His life is this girl Vanessa then both act like a married couple. The only stable person in her life is my son and she wants him to full the voids she has in her life and wants my son all to herself. Every time we try to talking to him he is always on the defensive side. Always gets an attitude, thinks he has it under control, knows it all and knows everything about life when he doesn’t. Last he lets her control him and she tells him what to do. Last he is not himself around her. I need God to move on my behalf because I don’t know what to do or what to say. I feel like this is out of my control. I am to the point I don’t want this girl around any more, I can’t stand her and her ways. I am scared I am lossing my son and will loss him forever. I feel that the only reason she is with him because he has a bright further and she wants out of her enviroment she is going to use my son to make that happen. I feel she is using him for her own personal gain. I need help on what to do and I want God to remove this girl forever.